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Monthly Archives: May 2007

Alive

I said I would be posting pictures, but I’m bored with that today. So, no pictures. I’m just glad to be here.

Yesterday I thought I might die. Not really, but kind of. See, I began to lose vision. Looking at my kids, I couldn’t totally process their faces. It was kind of like when someone takes a picture with a flash and that bright light gets in the way of your vision for a while…This has happened before, right before the onset of a migraine. But this time, I also began to experience numbness and weakness in my left hand as well as some numbness on the left side of my face. I began to worry that it was a stroke. But since I didn’t have a terrible headache or feel particularly like I might die, I decided to wait for Dave to come home before seeking medical attention. By the time he got home (like 20 minutes later) I was back to normal, almost, except for the pounding headache and lightheadedness. But that just felt like a migraine, and I was pretty sure that’s what it was. So I took a nap instead. Today I did some internet research and found out that those symptoms can be pretty common with migraines. I’d heard of them with strokes, but not migraines. You learn something new every day, I guess… I’d totally rather have a migraine than a stroke, wouldn’t you?

SO… no big deal. But weird, huh? The numb hand? I hadn’t heard of that before. Totally freaky. Anyway, I’m just pretty glad I’m not dead. :)  

May 27, 2007 - 12:43 am Deena - Hey, I totally know what you mean. My migraines all start like that, with the blurry vision and auras. I may not really be dying, but dang, sometimes I feel like I want to...the pain is killer! Take care. Hope you're feeling better.

May 27, 2007 - 12:18 pm stacy benintendi - optical migraines! i've had migraines since i was 11 and only when i started taking birth controll did they change to optical. it's the extra hormone in them. i went off right away and it helped a ton but i still get them too often. blurry vision and sometimes the numbness (totally wierd) and then the feeling of a brick to the face about 15-20 min. later. it SUCKS! if you're on birth controll i would maybe consider stopping. it would help.

May 27, 2007 - 12:54 pm Becky - I used to get visual auras before mine. Now I get a ringing in my ears ...sometimes I never even get the actual headache. It's what they call an atypical migraine. Weird things, those migraines.

May 27, 2007 - 8:55 pm Kari - This girl I grew up with had like a full-on stroke(like symptoms) Half her body paralzed- stuck on the couch.. couldn't move, rushed to the ER and after a couple of days of testing they told her it was a migraine. Until then I had never heard of such a thing. So weird...and scary

May 28, 2007 - 5:17 am kellicrowe - i'm glad you aren't dead too:):)

May 29, 2007 - 7:57 am Lindsay - I am glad you are not dead too!

May 29, 2007 - 9:09 am Hilary - I'v enever heard of the numb hand thing. If you get them a lot there's medication you can take at the first signs....

May 30, 2007 - 5:18 am linda - I get that as well. I can't even hold anything in my hands. It freaks me out. My latest neurologlist has had me take 1 baby aspirin a day to help combat the onset of migraines. Those are stroke symptoms. Mine were hormaone related, I had a hysterectomy almost 3 years ago. Although I get a migraine every now and then it's not s bad as before, 4-5 a month!

June 2, 2007 - 7:48 am Julie - i'm glad you are feeling better shannon! that is scary. migraines are NOT fun.

June 2, 2007 - 4:40 pm Jen - Shannon....I stalk your blog. :):) I am an ophthalmic technician....and you are right, everything there sounds like an optical migraine. EXCEPT. That numbness. And that flash of light sounds a bit different. You should probably go to an ophthalmologist just to be sure. Just wanted to tell you that. :)

June 4, 2007 - 8:56 am Gillian - Okay, that would beyond freak me out! Glad you're still living!

Little V.

Begg_02_2 Check. out. those. socks.

And the cute little behind-the-knees. I love it. :)

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May 25, 2007 - 10:58 pm tina - These are precious! What a cutie!

May 26, 2007 - 9:07 am stacy benintendi - these are great pictures shannon.

Been busy…

taking some fun pictures! :) I’ve been having so much fun with photography lately. Tomasko_11Tomasko_12 Tomasko_22_2

So many fun people to meet, babies to make a fool of myself in front of… I love it. Last year I kind of struggled with the overwhelmingness of trying to combine being a creative person and a business person, but I feel like I’m finally "getting it." It feels so good. I’m going to try to share more regularly… these pictures were from a couple months ago, and I have lots more to share. This will be catch-up week. I’ll share every day this week. That’s my goal.

I’m feeling so lucky lately to be able to do this, to have people to trust me to capture their families and who are willing to go along with my crazy ideas.

It’s such a dream come true… a dream that I would not have dared to dream a few years ago. Photography always intimidated me, it seemed so difficult and technical. And owning a business? A photography business? I would’ve thought it was awesome, I would’ve been so in awe of someone else, but never imagined it was something *I* could do. And look at me now. I’m giddy with excitement and gratitude. Thank you to everyone who has believed in me and encouraged me along the way. You have no idea what it has meant…

(eta: sorry to those of you on bloglines or whatever for updating this site a million times… I was having a hard time getting the pictures to look right and ended up taking a bunch off…)

May 23, 2007 - 11:27 pm Rachel - such cool pics Shannon. YOu are SO good at this. Can't wait to see more shares :)

May 24, 2007 - 7:42 am Lindsay - You are awesome! I can't even imagine having my own business. Go Shannon!

May 24, 2007 - 12:12 pm kristen - You are back! YEAH! Love the pics, you are very good at what you do. Even if you don't feel like you "get it," we (as your viewers) are pretty sure you do! How do you get your business decal on your pictures? And where do you get your great ideas for the pics? And about the crocs... I totally thought they were wimpy, at first, then got some for my baby (for mere convienence) then got some for my other two kids (out of pure laziness) and then tried on my sister's (out of simple curiosity) and now I am hooked! Wimpy or not they really are comfortable! Good to have you back! Have a great Memorial Day weekend!

May 24, 2007 - 9:09 pm Brenda - You're amazing! I was so bummed I missed your Enrichment digital photo night thing. Want to enlighten me? Puh-leease!

May 28, 2007 - 1:44 pm kent - Awesome photos!!

While I’m on the topic of sins…

I did another bad thing the other day. Something I SWORE I would never, ever, ever do. Something that brings me shame. But at the same time, just like any good sin, brings me a bit of joy too.

I bought myself a pair of crocs.Crocs_2

I didn’t mean to. I really do hate these shoes. Talk about ugly! Aren’t they gardening shoes or something? Whatever it is, I have been passionately against the thought of wearing them.

And then Dave bought some. Oh… if you could’ve heard how I made fun of him for his simple little purchase so he would have something to wear when he took the dog outside to poop… I humiliated him for making such a stupid purchase. These shoes are horribly ugly, and most certainly not guy shoes… that was the gyst of my nagging.

And then… I wore them once, to take the dog out to poop. And then forgot to take them off and found myself still wearing them an hour later. They are a million sizes too big and still fun to wear? No…I can’t…it’s just… wrong…

And then… I found myself looking for the blasted shoes every time I had to take the dog outside. They are so soft, like walking on fluffy clouds lit up by golden sunshine.

Eventually, I told myself it wouldn’t be so bad if I got my own pair, just to take the dog out to poop. And then I swore I would never wear them outside of my yard. And wouldn’t you know it, I’ve worn them for the past two days straight. Please forgive me.

May 17, 2007 - 11:32 pm Kathi - What color did you get? That's funny that you mentioned gardening because I saw them at Osh and I'm still just a little confused. Sure they're great for washing out but doesn't dirt get inside them? Gross...sweaty dirty feet in plastic shoes...I don't get it. Have you tried putting dirt in them? Can someone tell me before I go buy the cute floral ones at Osh?

May 18, 2007 - 7:39 am Lindsay - Shame on you! Crocs? I suppose it doesn't matter if you wear them, as long as you can stomach the scuzzy looks and rude comments dished out at the supermarket. Hold your head high Shannon.

May 18, 2007 - 8:59 am Lara - Would you believe that Crocs were actually boating shoes intended for males to wear before the general (probably a bunch of nurses) population discovered them? I think they're ugly as sin, but sometimes fashion must take a backseat to comfort. And sometimes it must be the other way around. :)

May 18, 2007 - 9:52 am Jami - Yeah, I don't really like crocs, I just can't picture plastic on feet being comfy. BUT, if they are comfy, who can argue with that, right?

May 18, 2007 - 10:53 am Julie - hmmm...they do have some cute mary jane style crocs out now. i've been thinking about getting some. :)

May 18, 2007 - 12:09 pm judi - hee hee! You got sucked in. Welcome to the dark side ;)

May 18, 2007 - 12:36 pm Deanna - So funny! I had a similar blog post this week: http://deannag.typepad.com/my_weblog/2007/05/ive_joined_the_.html

May 18, 2007 - 12:53 pm Deena Thom - I felt the same way. I bought a pair. Then I bought my son a pair. Then my b/f (The manly offroads). Then, my daughter got the mary janes with daisy jibbitz. Oh, and don't forget the crocsbutter, to jazz them up when they get a little dull looking. My sister's teasing is relentless...

May 18, 2007 - 2:09 pm Kathi - and why doesn't the plastic stink?

May 18, 2007 - 3:42 pm Hilary - I have two pair. Have you seen the mary Janes? I have them on right now. :)

May 18, 2007 - 5:16 pm Brenda - No thanks to the crocs, maybe for the boys...maybe not. I thought they were for nurses at first. Shows how little I know.

May 18, 2007 - 6:26 pm Andrea - Awesome. Thanks for secretly hating my shoes that I wore everyday at your house for a week. Now I feel like such a fashion retard....

May 19, 2007 - 8:01 pm Kari - I guess I am really backwards because I thought they were cute from the first time I saw them, but will probably never own them myself. No reason. I guess I am just more of a flip flop girl.

May 20, 2007 - 6:11 pm Joanna - Apparently the guy who owns Crocs lives around here...and he placed an order recently through the Ford dealership for Mustangs in 5 different colors...(he likes his cars in as many colors as his shoes)...and I would say he's a little well-off from his shoe-making venture...

May 22, 2007 - 9:57 am Gillian - lol... I think they look just like smurf shoes! I too am not a fan. Just promise you won't wear them to church or dinner out! :)

May 22, 2007 - 4:53 pm Lisa M. - Dave. in a pair of crocs. waiting for the dog. to poop. What a visual! I'm going to have to quit my job. I don't think I'll be able to keep a straight face around him anymore ;)

May 23, 2007 - 10:01 pm tina - Just bought myself a pair over the weekend. Black Mary Janes, to be exact. Comfort trumps fashion at my age (nearly 40), and I'm damn thankful for that. And now I think I need a pair in red.

May 24, 2007 - 3:16 pm Chelsey - I am so glad you finally took the plunge. I love my crocs. They are coming out with some really cute styles and are still the most comfortable shoe. Kevin and my boys all have a pair because they don't make your feet stink and you can throw them in the washer anytime you want.

May 24, 2007 - 3:26 pm tifsmith - i love crocs. love, love them. i don't care what anyone thinks. they are heavenly pillows of goodness. so there, i'm a proud croc wearing momma. and so help me they better never stop making them. cause if hear even the slightest rumor, i'm going to go out and stock up like noah collecting animals for the ark. (or elaine bennis collecting sponges :) ) welcome to the club!

May 28, 2007 - 1:43 pm kent - Ha ha - I have that same mentality about crocs too but I secretly want some!

June 18, 2007 - 12:46 am erin yamabe - you're not alone, i want some too...secretly:)

My biggest sin.

Shelby met a blind lady last week at her achievement days meeting (kind of like girl scouts…) Shelby was enamored with this lady, her dog, the fact that she could not only read braille, but could type it. She talked about her new blind friend for at least an hour. As I listened to her talk about the really cool blind lady, I kept feeling little stabs of guilt. I stole from her once. Not her, directly, but still… probably the worst thing I’ve ever done in my entire life. Really, seriously, my entire life. Just so you know, I never did anything worse than what I’m about to confess. I have no other sins. Really. Yeah.

Back in the early days of clogging, before I was too old to be a clogger, before I realized clogging was making me totally uncool, my buds and I made the coolest discovery. At the pizza parlor down the street, in the lobby, there were vending machines. We were delighted. On our five minute break during class, we’d head a couple doors down, fish the quarters out of our pockets and load up on Skittles, Hot Tamales, or Mike & Ikes. Yum. Still, when I eat that candy, it brings me back to those days. That discovery alone made me very happy. But the next discovery was what made us positively giddy.

One of the machines, the Hot Tamale machine, had a "bug." See, you could put your quarter in the machine, turn it two clicks, get the Hot Tamales, then turn the knob back the other way and take your quarter out. FREE candy!!! Yippeee!!! For a few weeks, the handful of candy was enough and we’d run back and enjoy our spoils. But eventually, one handful was not enough.

Necessity is the mother of invention, right? Well… eventually, our candy-junky selves discovered that we could insert the quarter, turn the knob two clicks, stick a finger into the machine, and drain the entire machine. Talk about nirvana. All the free Hot Tamales we could eat. We walked back to the clogging studio with our pockets so full we felt like ships with anchors overboard. We’d eat them not only through the rest of class, but through the entire week as well, emptying our supply just in time to reload at next week’s practice.

The fun ended when one of us noticed that the proceeds of the candy machines were going to benefit blind children. We were stealing from BLIND CHILDREN. I don’t remember who made the discovery or who put us on the guilt trip, but it’s a guilt trip I’ve stayed on my entire life. The fun stopped there. Yes. Because that is the worst thing I’ve ever done. And I never, ever try to take my quarters back if I use a candy machine now. Even ones that aren’t benefiting blind people. Yeah…never. And even if I could, I wouldn’t. Because that’s bad. Really, really bad. And not fun. No, not fun at all. This is a memory I look back to with pain, not with pleasure, because free candy… it’s not funny. Or yummy. Or awesome.

If I ever meet Shelby’s new blind friend, I’m giving her a box of Hot Tamales. I know it won’t make up for the wrongs I’ve done, but maybe it will make her happy like it once made me happy. And then, the guilt I’ve lived with for my horrible deed, the worst thing I’ve ever done, yes ever, so don’t ask if I’ve done anything bad because this is it, will be alleviated and I can feel guilty about something else really major and horrible. But there wouldn’t be anything, since this is the worst thing, so I guess I would be happy and living on the cloud at the end of a rainbow and riding on a unicorn that I got as a gift from a Care Bear. That would be pretty cool…

May 16, 2007 - 6:27 pm kimberly lough - Can I just say that you are hilarious! I stole a mini address book when I was really little(from Ayr-Way, kind of a pre-target). When I got older, I couldn't look at it anymore, so I gave it to a friend of mine as a gift-NICE. When I got even older and learned about surveillance(sp?) cameras, I would lay in bed at night and hear sirens and think they had finally gotten to my tape and they were coming to get me! I really had a guilty conscience! We learned our lessons, right? Right. Kimberly

May 16, 2007 - 6:29 pm kimberly lough - Can I just say that you are hilarious! I stole a mini address book when I was really little(from Ayr-Way, kind of a pre-Target). When I got older, I couldn't look at it anymore, so I gave it to a friend of mine as a gift-NICE. When I got even older and learned about surveillance(sp?) cameras, I would lay in bed at night and hear sirens and think they had finally gotten to my tape and they were coming to get me! I really had a guilty conscience! We learned our lessons, right? Right. Kimberly

May 16, 2007 - 10:58 pm stacy benintendi - you are hilarious!

May 17, 2007 - 7:04 am Hilary - So... why don't you just send 50 bucks to some association for the blind or something, and be rid of the guilt? Perhaps they want scrapbooking supplies? :)

May 17, 2007 - 7:56 am Andrea - Great, now I'm feeling all guilty again. But, I think I've done worse things (remember my valentines day card fiasco??) so I can still eat Hot Tamales with joy. BUT to even further your guilt, you forgot one minor detail. In order to reduce the risk of ACCIDENTALY turning past two clicks and losing our quarter, we learned we could use the fake quarters from Emily's board game. Then, there was never a chance that we could lose even a single quarter in the process. Oh, so bad......

May 17, 2007 - 9:56 am Brenda - Hahahahahah. I think I just peed a little. Sorry TMI. You should make a list like Earl. I would but my list would be too long.

May 17, 2007 - 9:59 am Brenda - Hahahahahah. I think I just peed a little. Sorry TMI. That's your biggest sin? You should make a list like Earl. I would but my list would be too long. Seriously, I feel so EVIL after reading that blog.

May 17, 2007 - 10:44 pm stephanie t. - Many, many years ago.... My 'ex' was a hearing impaired person (profoundly bilateral deafness as a result of his mother having rubella during pregnancy). I had the mannerisms and facial expressions mastered to perfection...So good that I faked being deaf to get front row seats in Vegas at what I thought was an authentic 'Moulin Rouge' dance performance...I thought I'd hit pay dirt with awesome seats...until I realized that this was VEGAS style...they were freakin' topless with nothing but g-strings and tacky feathers. SO gross. Paybacks are a bitch!

mothers day, family visit, blind people, photo shoots…what to talk about first?

Once again, the blog has been neglected. But you know? That’s ok. I have so much to catch up on. Been a very busy couple of weeks for me. Starting with a visit from these folks:Ab

My only sister, Andrea, and her cheek-a-licious son, Bennett. My gosh… those cheeks… I hadn’t seen these guys for a whole year. Bennett was kind enough to hang on to the cheeks for that year so I could have one more chance at smooching them.

These guys are a riot. You can just tell from that picture, can’t you? Full of personality. I realized when Andrea was out here that the thing I like best about her is how easily she laughs. For real. Not little chuckles, but she laughs a lot. And when someone is laughing, it’s easier to join in. I love that.

We went to San Francisco with these folks:

Web Jami (our sister-in-law) and Trenton (another cheek-a-licious nephew… am I the cheek-a-luckiest auntie or what?).

With four kids and three adults pregnant with three babies (not me… Jami’s carrying one for each of us), we didn’t get a whole lot of touristing done. We did get some delicious clam chowder and steamed crabs and, of course, a huge Ghiradelli sundae. Food-centered touristing… the best kind. Which leads me to ask… how can three little dudes with chocolate on their faces following such delectable delightfulness look so dissatisfied? 100_4788

I did find a couple other things besides food that interested me. We happened upon a really cool little music store that had the strangest instruments, ever heard of a Hurdy Gurdy? Me neither. And across the street was a cool little shop that sold Matryoshka dolls. I’ve always had a fascination with those things. Check this out:

Dolls  That blue set has about a million pieces. I wanted it. But I couldn’t drop like $200 on it, so I ended up buying a five piece one for $20. The lady was so cute… she loved her little shop. She was so excited and talking so fast that we couldn’t tell if she was speaking Russian or English. But it didn’t matter… I love seeing someone with a passion. She was delightful.

The next day, Mom came and joined the party. Yay! I gave her some chocolate from Ghiradelli as an early mother’s day present. She conveniently left it behind when she left. Sorry Mom…Mom

We had a great time. We went to the Mystery Spot (SO mysterious!) and the beach, flew kites, celebrated a Cinco de Mayo birthday for one awesome little dude: Bday

Oh man. Right now, I want to start typing all that stuff about how I can’t believe my baby is three and how that rips my heart out and makes me happy at the same time, but instead, I’ll just say he turned three and move on. {sigh}

Sunday was a hang-out and chill day, Monday we went out to lunch and shopping and Mom had to head back. Tuesday involved going to a place filled with bounce houses and a trip to the park/zoo that resulted in this adorable picture:

Zoo I was tired. My sister didn’t fly all the way across the country to sit around my house while I sat at the computer like I would’ve been doing if she hadn’t been there. But apparently, I was not too tired for a little of this: Dance1

Apparently Andrea and I coordinate not only our dance moves, but our facial expressions…Dance Dance2(those pictures were taken with two different cameras at two different times…

The highlight of our girls night out was not the sundae we enjoyed at the end, but at laughing at my dance-off with one of the employees who offered free tickets to challenge him, and even more tickets and free admission if we beat him… he acted like he never played the stupid game and then creamed me. Look how serious he looks here.Dance3_2

My victory comes in the fact that although I looked like a bigger fool during the dance off, he looks like a bigger fool in this picture I’m posting on the internet. TAKE THAT, dancing dude.

May 15, 2007 - 4:17 pm Brenda - Man, looks like you had a terrible time! Now I'm homesick!

May 15, 2007 - 10:36 pm Moriah Bettencourt - Okay, they pic of the 2 sisters dancing with the same expression.... HILLARIOUS!!! Glad you had such a good time :)

May 16, 2007 - 12:22 am Hilary - Wow. Can't believe F is 3!!!! Happy birthday little F.

May 16, 2007 - 7:15 am Julie - ROFL! I love you Shannon! I love you!!!!!!!!

May 16, 2007 - 5:31 pm Kathi - That cracks me up that you and Andrea have the same expression.

workin’ hard.

WHEW!! What a week.

In addition to having my mom and sister come for a visit, (I’ll talk about all THOSE exciting details in my next post) I’ve been working hard to overhaul my website. I hadn’t touched it in waaaay too long. But I replaced nearly all the pictures and colors, changed up the galleries, and even cleaned up my logo a bit.

Wanna check it out?
www.shannonmontez.com

I also updated my price list a bit. It was time. But if you were thinking about booking a session and hadn’t gotten around to it, you have 10 days to book a session under the old pricing. The only stipulation is that the session must take place before September 15.

I think I need a nap now! :p

May 12, 2007 - 9:23 am Jami - Shannon- I love it! It looks great!

May 14, 2007 - 11:06 am Brenda - Whew! You're back. The shakes and eye twitches from my withdrawls will finally stop now! The website looks great BTW!

May 16, 2007 - 10:59 am molly - dag-on girl! you are quite a busy lady! website looks great! and sometimes i let your site run in the background of whatever i'm doing (after i look at it of course) just to hear the music - love it!

Taking a break…

As if I wasn’t already… :)

My sister and mom are coming for a visit. YEAH!!

So, I’m thinking I might do something besides sit on the computer all day. Doubtful I’ll be posting this week, but maybe I will. You just never know.

May 4, 2007 - 12:34 am kristen - Okie Dokie! Have a funtastic visit!

May 5, 2007 - 12:27 pm Brenda - No ramblings? What will I do now?